Dr. Dan Siegel

The Self is Not Defined by the Boundaries of Our Skin

The Self is Not Defined by the Boundaries of Our Skin

Recently, I’ve spoken at several conferences around the country about mindfulness in adolescents, attachment in families, and bringing more awareness and compassion to our digital lives.  One comment in particular that I made at each of these speaking engagements seemed to garner the most curiosity and attention.  The statement is this: The self is not defined by the […]

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Pruning, Myelination, and the Remodeling Adolescent Brain

Pruning, Myelination, and the Remodeling Adolescent Brain

It’s not so easy being an adolescent these days.  We become aware of the world around us, are flooded with input through digital media about our extended global family, and learn about the world’s intense and overwhelming problems. And even more, puberty’s onset is getting earlier, and the time between our childhood dependence and adult

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The ESSENCE of Adolescence

The ESSENCE of Adolescence

Our modern culture encourages deeply pervasive myths about adolescence.  Those myths we hear casually in repetition—that teens are driven mad by “raging hormones,” that as people they are “just immature and need to grow up,” or that their “undeveloped prefrontal cortex makes them undependable and moody”—are all misconceptions that not only imprison how we as adults see

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3 Steps to Disconnecting from Our Phones and Reconnecting with our Teens

3 Steps to Disconnecting from Our Phones and Reconnecting with our Teens

These days it’s hard to hang out with parents of teenagers without hearing disparaging comments about how digital devices are devouring our kids’ time and attention. Or how our driving adolescents are driving us mad when they text on the highway, risking life and limb for the sake of a quick LOL or WITW or OMG. All for the sake of

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Why Our Teenagers Feel Compelled to Connect on Social Media

Why Our Teenagers Feel Compelled to Connect on Social Media

In these fast and furious days of digital overload, we as parents often worry about our teenagers’ interactions with one another on social media.  Who hasn’t seen a teenager deeply absorbed with a smartphone or breaking off a face-to-face conversation to take a picture for their friends on Snapchat?  With heads down and screens lit

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Seven Signals You Can Send To Your Teen Right Now Instead of a Text

Seven Signals You Can Send To Your Teen Right Now Instead of a Text

Social media has a reputation for being nothing but trouble for teenagers. There are many upsides to social media, not least of which is that it provides a way for teens to connect with one another. What concerns me more than simply the time spent on screens is the time not spent in direct face-to-face connection.

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